In the section “Personal experience”, the editorial board of Rambler publishes useful advice from our readers. We suggest discussing the effectiveness of the council in the comments.
Now there will be a little cry from the heart. I lost my virginity at the age of 30 and, honestly, I have no regrets. I decided to speak like this, because I can no longer see the discouraged eyes of my sisters and girlfriends.
I grew up in an extremely religious family where, naturally, talking about sex was taboo. As well as communication with the opposite sex. Once, in the 10th grade, a classmate volunteered to accompany me home, so after this incident my parents threw such a scandal on me that I forgot about men for a few more years.
My appearance is ordinary, I would even say inconspicuous, so I also did not notice much attention from men. But that's half the trouble: by the age of 23, I had no sexual experience. While my peers were giving birth and getting married, I didn't even know what it was like to kiss passionately. In those years it worried me a lot, I spent nights on dating sites to meet "that one", but only came across obscene offers and "dikpiks". And I didn't want to give my virginity to the first person I met.
To somehow satisfy myself, I started masturbating and watching porn. This helped relieve tension, and soon became a habit. I even thought that I could do without a man. But when my friends once again in colors talked about how they adore sex and how good their partners are in this matter, I felt uneasy.
When I turned 30, I gave up. I realized that I can no longer look for a prince, that I need human sex. I returned to the dating site again and unexpectedly met an interesting man there. Already on the second date, I told him that I had never had sex, and he … was delighted. Although I was ready for his fright and the immediate termination of our communication.
I pushed all my principles into the background, and we slept after a week of dating. He was as gentle with me as possible, I hardly even felt pain. And then a sex marathon began, almost a month long. He taught me everything, talked about different sexual practices and helped me to love my body, to which I have always been skeptical. We are still together, and I am glad that I have been waiting for sex for so long - but I know for sure that my first experience was with the right person.
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