A sex expert told about this.
Australian writer, sex expert and blogger Nadia Bokody found out why women don't like oral sex very much and talked about it in a column for the Australian magazine news.com.au. We retell the most important.
According to a study led by Nadia, 53% of men describe oral sex as a very pleasant experience. There were only 28% of women who agreed with them.
I have a dirty vagina. This is what I was made to believe as a child
- wrote Nadia.
According to the sex expert, it's all about the upbringing and attitude towards their genitals, which is different for men and women. Men always see their genitals while women are even afraid to look at them.
In my youth, my vagina seemed like a stranger, something not my own,
- says Nadia.
In addition, we are taught from childhood to think that the vagina is something shameful. We are always told: "Cross your legs." While men proudly push them apart, without embarrassment. Nadia brings these arguments and says how it affected her sex life. She always feels uncomfortable when a man wants to make her cunnilingus.
When my first boyfriend ventured downstairs, I politely squeezed my legs,
- says Nadya.
The sex expert believes that shame should be overcome and teens should be taught not to be ashamed of their bodies.