As you remember, we have a new column "Helen Yes Column". There you can ask any personal question to the famous Instagram blogger Elena Sazhina. The famous mother of twins will give her assessment of your life situation, help you with exclusive advice, and just instill confidence in you. Don't be afraid to be frank with us. We promise that we will remain completely anonymous. You can ask your question at the bottom of the page. Meet a portion of new questions from readers:
Lena, thank you for your advice. Such happiness to receive them from you. My name is Svetlana, I am 35 years old, I have two children, but my husband and I are divorced. I am monitoring your account and I think you can tell me. It seems to me that at 35 I became an old, useless woman. Now I look at young people with envy and remember myself in those years. I’m sure that men don’t look at me, so I try to dress discreetly, I recovered. I finally fell out of love with myself, and then it only got worse.
Answer: Svetlana, good afternoon. I want to say that you need to work on yourself and your worldview. I want to cite my mother as an example. She is now over 40 years old, but she is engaged in fitness, sports, does her hair, buys outfits. Mom fell in love with herself for who she is. We are as young as we feel at heart, no matter how old you are. The main thing is to love yourself, stand in front of the mirror, do different makeup and hairstyles, and understand what you like best. You can watch online lessons on the Internet. Start eating right, exercising, caring and relaxing treatments. Don't look at others! Once you love yourself, others will love you. Then you will be 18 in your soul, you will flourish and will flutter like a butterfly. Remember that all girls are beautiful no matter how old they are. We are always young at heart. Question 2:
Elena you are gorgeous and so wise and popular. My name is Ivan. I follow you and I am 12 years old. I really want to become a popular blogger, but I don't understand how it's done. Mom says it's useless because everything is bought. Tell me what to do?
Answer: Good afternoon, Vanya. Very nice. Blogging is the kind of thing where you do what you like. You probably have your own talent, maybe you like to draw, sing, shoot, parody? First you need to find yourself, that outlet that brings you pleasure. Once you do something that you really enjoy doing, people will love it. I note that nothing has been bought, no one is spending huge millions on promotion. For example, as it was with me: I just started filming funny videos, which began to hit the top and people like it. Find what you like and try different platforms: YouTube, Instagram, TikTok. Don't forget to learn how to edit and edit pictures. Once you find yourself, your subscribers and viewers will love you. You will succeed! Question 3:
Elena, tell me how to get rid of the feeling of guilt? I am the same friend who stole the boyfriend from her friend. We have been happy together for three years, he was not as happy with her as he was with me. I really love him, he loves me, we are all bombastic. But I cannot get rid of the fear that everything will return to me like a boomerang. I feel guilty that I took my beloved away from my best friend. By the way, my name is also Lena, thank you for your advice.
Answer: Helen, good afternoon. This is a very common situation these days. It is commendable that you feel ashamed. So you are a very kind and sincere person. In today's world, you never know how your life will turn out. Your cards fell out like that, fate brought you together, and so it should have happened. First, don't think about any boomerang. If you think about it and constantly scroll in your head, then it will happen. Throw away all bad thoughts, live in the present. Enjoy, relax and rejoice in your loved one. You just need to talk to your friend. Meet in a cozy atmosphere, in a cafe, discuss the situation. Tell her the whole truth: “I'm ashamed, but it happened. I fell in love . I believe that this will be the most correct way out of the situation. She may not want to listen to you, but after you speak, it will be easier for you. If the meeting does not work out, then write her a letter or message. In fact, everything in our life is so unpredictable. If you managed to find a loved one in this way, then do not think about the bad, let go of everything old and enjoy a wonderful happy future.