It turns out that men can fake orgasms too! We decided to find out a little more about this in order to catch him on the most important thing. And, of course, understand why and when this can happen in your intimate life. How men fake orgasm
There is a common belief that ejaculation is a direct proof of male orgasm. A common stereotype is that the male orgasm is extremely physiological in essence, in contrast to the psychological female orgasm. What a delusion! Any orgasm, both female and male, is the highest point of emotional and physiological experiences, and one is inseparable from the other. Many modern sexologists have come to the conclusion that orgasm is more a function of the brain and less associated with the activity of the muscles. Encephalograms of the men examined showed that the first signs of orgasm appear in the brain long before the body begins to show the corresponding symptoms.
Ejaculation is just a reflex at the base of the spine, culminating in the release of semen and confirming the onset of the peak of bodily sensations, but only bodily. What happens in a man's soul, what emotions he experiences at the moment of sperm discharge and whether he is experiencing anything at all, only he himself knows, at best.
That is why ejaculation is fairly easy to separate from orgasm, and the followers of Taoism and Tantra practice this throughout their lives. Men who have never experienced the enjoyment of an orgasm without sperm loss are skeptical about this idea, to put it mildly. But those who for decades have experienced unprecedented climaxes of physical and spiritual ecstasy will never agree to return to primitive physiological ejaculatory orgasms. What does a partner get at the end of a normal intercourse? Rhythmic body movements, increased heart rate and tachycardia, muscle contractions in the pelvic region, rhythmic contractions of the anal sphincter, rapid breathing, hyperventilation of the lungs and increased blood pressure. What does your beloved experience during orgasm? Flight of the soul! This is where you sometimes have to act
There are times when there is not even a visual confirmation of the biological ending of the love act. To understand why sperm may not be released, you need to familiarize yourself with the anatomical structure of a man. At the root of the penis in the urethra there is a seminal tubercle through which the ducts that eject the semen pass. When sperm travels along this pathway, the ducts stretch and the nerve endings of the seminal tubercle become irritated. It is this irritation that causes particular sexual pleasure. After that, the blood drains from the pelvic organs, and relaxation sets in. If for some reason the sperm is not produced by the body and does not come out, it may seem to a man that he never got to the peak of pleasure.
Not making a lover happy with a fountain of seminal fluid for a fiery lover can be prevented by extreme fatigue, which does not correspond to the image of a tough macho. Sometimes there is a need to "rehabilitate" a limp for various reasons, a member and worthily complete the fight with an insatiable vagina. Sometimes you want sexual happiness to end as soon as possible. But in general, what's the difference what the reasons give rise to the need to complete the love date on dry, the main thing is that the beloved, with all his will, cannot lose a drop of protein!
Why is this happening?
Can a man fake an orgasm? The creators of the American TV show This Morning conducted a survey, as a result of which it was found that 19% of men in this country easily imitate maximum pleasure, demonstrating characteristic groans, facial expressions and body movements. I think the Russians would be no less frank, and in the matter of simulation they would also give odds to any foreigner.
So how do they do it and, most importantly, why? By and large, imitation of an orgasm in men is a rescue lie. Some women are very attentive to the emotions that a man experiences during intimacy. And God forbid such a person with "psychic" abilities to suspect that something is wrong with the chosen one - there will be no limit to the stream of questions. To save the fragile male psyche from the onslaught of restless female curiosity and unfounded suspicions of all mortal sins, it is better to portray a stereotyped delight and hastily forget a sweet dream, in which, if you are lucky, you will dream of something that will cause goosebumps without a single touch. The second reason for "sexual lies" can be a man's desire to seem more sensual and sexier than he really is, and thereby make an indelible impression on his beloved. Many people, not only men, but also women, think that having an orgasm helps to bring partners closer together. So you have to be hypocritical in bed. And this vice, in fact, is sometimes not alien to you and me!
Who is to blame and what to do?
Firstly, it is not worth looking for the culprit in case your boyfriend has not reached the top. In such situations, no one is to blame, or both parties are to blame, because sexual relations involve at least two people.
The second important rule: if you feel that your partner has not broken the finish line, you do not need to fix your attention on this, and even more so do not try to help him reach the finish line. This can be even more embarrassing. The most humane thing is to simply find out at his leisure what gives him special pleasure and what his erotic fantasies are. You can watch a funny adult film together and look at the reactions of your beloved, suddenly he pays special attention to something.
In any case, you should not have anxiety that the bodily part of your relationship is far from the standard you have invented. Relationships are most often destroyed not from a lack of someone's orgasms, but from a lack of emotional satisfaction. To insure yourself against such an erotic embarrassment, it is enough to remember only one thing: sex is, first of all, an exchange of energy, and it is impossible to simulate a state of energy fullness. An explosion of sexual energy is generated by a certain state of consciousness. Therefore, when deciding to come into contact with a man, start with the head!
