Irina Prokopyeva, a psychologist, motivational speaker, author and presenter of effective communication trainings, named the most common misconception women adhere to about men. This was reported by Radio 1.
According to the expert, this is the confidence that they will be able to change the character of the partner.
- From my experience with women, this is a desire to change a man. She believes that she can do it, - said the psychologist.
However, if he himself does not want to change, then he will not be able to change the vector of his attitude to life. The expert explained that if a woman wants to marry a certain man, but sees certain shortcomings in him, then at first, as a rule, she hopes to eliminate or correct them over time. For example, she believes that she can wean him from bad habits.
“For example, a woman thinks:“He does not pay child support, but he loves me, and I can change him. He was a womanizer, but now that we have stamped our passport, everything will be fine. " It is the same with alcohol, - explained Irina Prokopyeva.
The psychologist also stated that marriage does not change the relationship that was before registration. According to her, an adult is already formed, he has habits, character and a certain pattern of behavior. In her opinion, if something of this does not suit a woman, then there is no need to build illusions: after the wedding, the partner will remain the same.