Practicing psychologist Alexander Shakhov spoke about five simple questions that will make it possible to understand whether a man is ready to create a strong and serious relationship. The portal "Dni.ru" informs about it.
The specialist advised to ask the partner about his personal plans for the near future. This question will clarify whether a man is planning his life or is just going with the flow, whimpering and trying to find the ones to blame in case of the first failures.
Short-term plans must be matched by long-term ones. A responsible man roughly calculates where and who he will be in ten years. "A man should now take small steps that will lead him to the realization of a great goal in the future," the psychologist emphasized.
A man's intentions will help clarify the question of what he thinks about the relationship. If a partner tries to evade an answer, then he is not interested in a serious relationship. Most likely, he only needs intimacy.
To find out if a man takes a relationship seriously, two questions will help: "What do you think of me?" and "How do you feel about me?" It will take your partner time to respond, as men think in facts, not emotions. The lack of answers may indicate that the relationship does not mean very much for a man.
Previously, experts found out that a distinctive feature of the behavior of modern men is the late distribution of social roles. This is noticeable in the later marriage and life with parents, even after getting a job. Psychologists clarify that society still demands "extremely masculine" behavior from men.
