Psychologist Luciya Suleimanova told why the girls are discussing their former chosen ones with the current ones. In her opinion, in this way they want to arouse the jealousy of their companion.
She noted that people usually consider revelations about the former the norm of the first evening, draw attention to themselves, causing jealousy of their partner.
- Sometimes a woman can even invent admirers or treason, or to take revenge on a man, or "return" to him for some kind of offense that was. The consequences of this, of course, are tragic,”the psychologist clarified.
The expert also said that curiosity plays a role in every gender, and this is normal. In this way, partners try to make sure that their past relationship is over. The psychologist advised how to correctly answer questions about the former chosen ones, the "Fifth Channel" reports.
- You need to learn to answer quickly, without hesitation, without focusing on the issue of attention. At the same time, it is important to present information as if the relationship did not matter to you, and most importantly, it does not matter now,”concluded Suleimanova.
She also noted that it is not worth remembering the "sweet" details of past relationships. This can not only offend, but also anger the current partner.
Earlier, the metropolitan psychologist told how to get out of codependent relationships.