How do you know if your husband is cheating or not? In fact, this question is based largely on jealousy - a feeling that is as destructive as it is unproductive. Jealous, you rely on speculation. In such serious situations, it is worth operating only with bare facts, trying to hide emotions or at least postpone them. Close communication with another woman. If your husband has a colleague at work, an old college acquaintance or a school friend with whom he regularly spends time - this is already a reason to start worrying. Especially if in this communication he begins to move away from you a little. This is quite unpleasant and leads to numerous quarrels. The husband can answer with some phrases that will not leave you with visible reasons for jealousy: for example, "she is like my sister."
Regularly arriving home after work. If the husband is very often late at work, began to go fishing with friends very often or go to the bathhouse, this may serve as another alarming signal for the wife. It is quite possible that under most of these delays and trips to the bathhouse lies an ordinary visit to his mistress.
Cooling your husband's relationship to you. Has sex become much less regular under the pretext of fatigue? In his free time, the spouse prefers to be alone, at the computer, newspaper or TV, preferably without you as a distraction? It may very well be that his thirst for companionship has already been quenched by another woman.
Obvious signs of treason are SMS messages from women's numbers, regular calls, to which your husband answers in a crumpled and indistinct manner in front of you. The smell of perfume, women's hair on clothes, a scratched back - can also serve as a reason for jealousy. … It is possible that you are asking your spouse to pay too much attention to you. Or you don't leave him room for personal space. It is possible that by absence from home, delays at work and time spent with friends, he just wants to abstract from everyday problems and your society, which is too burdensome for him.
It really could be just a colleague with whom your husband was paired during a work emergency. Or a really good childhood friend - a friend not in terms of sleeping, but in terms of communicating, without any physical intimacy.