Living together After a man and a woman begin to live together, everything becomes a little different. For example, now they do everything together. They wake up in the same bed, get ready for work, cook dinner, walk the dog and much more. However, in practice, it turns out that all this cannot last long. Sometimes there is a desire to be alone for an hour. Go to the store alone, watch the rain from the balcony with a cup of tea, or read a book in silence. This does not mean that love has passed, or that everyday life has cooled people's feelings for each other. And this in no way means that the marriage was a mistake.
Personal space Love is not an absolute dissolution in another person. This inevitably leads to the loss of individuality and the emergence of a certain dependence. A healthy relationship means that a man and a woman have some personal space and time that they can devote exclusively to themselves. If a person has a desire to be alone for several hours, this is normal. People in relationships need to understand this. This is how man is made. There is nothing to be done with nature.
A woman may have a completely natural desire to go shopping with her friends, and a man may want to sit for a couple of hours with friends in the garage. This is the desire for a full-fledged person with various interests.
Striving for stability and balance Each person has their own habits. For people living under the same roof, this is most often expressed in certain nuances. For example, a man is used to sleeping on a sofa on the edge, and a woman is used to sleeping under a wall. Someone is watching TV, sitting on the left edge of the sofa, and someone is in the center. This kind of human "marks", according to the statements of psychologists, is a subconscious striving for balance, stability and comfort. It is important. And there is no need to try to forbid someone or to wean a person from something. Especially if it's a mere trifle. Do not take away from a person his stability, otherwise you may face aggression even from a loved one.
Finding compromises If your partner is absolutely not satisfied with something, then it makes sense to calmly talk and give your reasons. This should be a conversation, not a flurry of criticism against the other person. In marriage, you have to adjust your habits, look for a compromise with your soul mate and give him the opportunity to be alone with himself if he needs it.