The author of the Swipe Life online dating blog, Bobby Box, talked with experts and told how to successfully break up with a partner because of an unsatisfactory relationship. According to him, many people are not ready to act in this way, acting in their own way.
Before parting, you need to be firmly convinced of the desire to end the relationship, said Box. He also recommended making a list of reasons why a partner is no longer suitable. The conversation should not be postponed, since delay will harm both sides of the relationship, the author is convinced.
The article also advised not to address your partner during a conversation, but to focus on yourself: mention the pronoun "I" and speak directly about your own dissatisfaction. Boxing added that the partner probably won't be ready to break up and will react emotionally. Because of this, some people are thinking about continuing the relationship, but Boxing is sure that this is not worth doing.
He noticed that sometimes a breakup leads to feelings of guilt. According to the author, you should also be prepared for messages and calls from your ex after breaking up. It is best to talk in advance whether the communication will continue, Box explained.
Previously, Swipe Life author Katie Dupere listed the types of partners that most parents reject. However, she believes that such partners are not always a bad choice for building relationships.