Professional dominatrix Vea Vesper revealed several professional secrets and shared work stories in a stream for TJournal.
Vesper, who lives in New York, said that she entered the profession on the recommendation of her husband, who advised her to monetize her hobby. “When I worked in a bar, I had a couple of clients who offered foot fetish and even paid some tips for it. The husband said: "If you like it - then go to work," the sex worker shared. She added that her family and her husband's family are aware of her profession and take it normally.
The woman noted that her work is fundamentally no different from prostitution, but clarified: "In my case, I do not have vaginal or any other sex, I do not undress, I cannot be touched, but I use a strap-on." She drew attention to the fact that on Pornhub dominatrix sessions often end with self-satisfaction or sex, however, she prefers a different end to the meeting with the client. After the domination session, she leaves 10-15 minutes to discuss with the men what they liked and disliked.
Vesper emphasized that she takes the choice of clients very seriously. She always asks for recommendations from other dominatrixes when new clients want to visit her. In addition, to get into the dominatrix session, men provide her with personal data or an account in LimkedIn. The woman must check whether the potential client was convicted of rape or grievous bodily harm - Vesper refuses convicted.
According to Vesper, before the meeting, he communicates with the client by e-mail and discuss his preferences. During the sessions, she stops and asks the men if everything is all right. In addition, the use of stop words is practiced in BDSM sessions. “It is very important to build trust, because without trust nothing will work,” the sex worker summed up.
Earlier, pornographic actress Mia Khalifa complained that the past would haunt her for the rest of her life. The adult film star noted that women who star in porn are not entitled to these videos. This means that videos with their participation cannot be removed from the network, and the consequences of decisions that they made many years ago will be with them to death.