A man may say, “I have a terrible blockage at work; I recently experienced a breakup in a serious relationship, which was a big blow for me; the divorce of my parents left an indelible mark on my soul and brought a bunch of new troubles; now I need to focus on my career; I cannot start a relationship until everything in my life is working out; as soon as my situation improves, I will leave my wife, girlfriend, lousy job; I'm awfully busy."
It's easier for us to jump out of the window than to say, "You don't suit me." We are one hundred percent sure that in this case you will kill us or yourself, or both of us, or, even worse, start crying and screaming. Even if we don't talk about it, we are clearly showing you our attitude. Stop making excuses for us, our actions speak for themselves: you just don't like you.
1. He doesn't like you that much, since he doesn't ask you out on a date.
Because if he likes you, trust me, he will definitely make an appointment for you.
1. Excuse Option: He may not want to ruin our friendship
I hate to tell you about this, but this excuse does not hold up to scrutiny. Unfortunately, throughout the history of mankind, this excuse has never been used by those who really meant it. If we really care about a woman, we cannot bring ourselves to stop - we want more. And please don't tell me that he is just "afraid." The only thing he fears - and I affirm this, having sincere sympathy for you - is to admit that you are not attracted to him at all.
2. Option to justify: Probably, he hesitates to take the first step
You can hint to a man that you have sympathy for him, but you should not help him ask you out on a date. Again, dear ladies: the fact that you smile and playfully wink at him will be enough.
3. Variant of excuse: Maybe he doesn't want to rush things.
If a man really likes you, but there are deeply personal reasons why he does not want to rush things, he will immediately tell you about it. He will not leave you in the dark, as he needs confidence that you will not be disappointed and will not disappear from his life.
4. Excuse like "But he gave me his phone number"
Don't let him use cheap tricks to get you to ask him out on a date. If you are interested in a man, he will take all the trouble on himself. It sounds a little old-fashioned, but when a man likes a woman, he asks her out on a date.
5. Justification like "Perhaps he forgot about me"
Be sure you made an impression on him. Now leave it as it is. If he likes you, he will remember you even after the tsunami, flood or the defeat of the Russian national team in the next match. If he forgot about you, do not waste time on him. Do you know why? Because you are great.
Any excuse essentially means that he is of little interest to you. Men are not afraid to "destroy friendships."
Don't fall for his tricks and don't ask him out on a date. If he likes you, he will invite you himself.
If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will.
“Hey, let's meet at such and such a party / in some bar / at a friend’s house” is not a date invitation. Even if you live in New York.
The man remembers well whether he liked you when he met, so hang up.
You are good enough to be asked out on a date.
2. He doesn't like you that much if he doesn't call you.
Men know how to use the telephone
6. Justification like "But he is on the road so often"
Take note: the man who is interested in you wants to spend time with you. And he'll be content with five phone calls only if he can't make it to the plane to rush to you.
7. Justification like "But his head is busy with completely different things"
The most important question here is: "Is it okay if a man forgot to call me?" I answer: "No." Unless he needs to rush someone to the hospital or someone has stolen his Ferrari. He should never forget that he promised to call you. If I really like you, I will never forget about you. Aren't you expecting a guy who would rather forget about everything that happened in his life than forget about you?
8. Justification like "He is not saying what he really thinks"
Here's the problem: At the end of a date or phone call, many men tell you what they think you would like to hear. They think it's better than nothing. So if the guy you are dating doesn't call you despite all his promises, is it worth it to dwell on him? After all, you need a man who can at least keep his word.
9. "But he's very busy" excuse
And now I'm going to make an outrageous, harsh and categorical statement regarding the relationship between a man and a woman: the word "busy" is complete nonsense, it is usually used by donkeys. The word "busy" in one gulp can destroy any relationship. Extreme "busyness" may seem like a compelling excuse, but in reality, there is always a man behind this concept who was not interested in calling you. Remember, men always have time to get what they want.
10. One hundred percent of the polled representatives of the stronger sex said: they will always find a moment to call a woman who they really like.
If he doesn't call you, then he doesn't think about you.
If he makes promises and then lets you down on little things, rest assured that the same will happen when it comes to bigger things. Keep that in mind, and keep in mind that this guy won't have a hard time disappointing you.
You should not build a relationship with someone who is not able to keep his word.
If he does not want to make the slightest effort to calm you down and smooth out the brewing conflicts in your relationship, then he simply does not respect your feelings and needs.
Busy is the same as donkey. And the "donkey" is the same as the guy you are dating.
You deserve to be fucking called.
3. He doesn't like you that much if he doesn't acknowledge the fact that you are dating.
Spending time together doesn't mean dating.
11. Justification like "He just went through a painful breakup."
He may be one of your closest friends, but as a man, he is not that infatuated with you. Beware of the word friend. It is often used by men or women who are in love with these men to justify their most swinish behavior. When choosing friends, I prefer people who don't upset me.
12. "But we are really dating" excuse
Men, like women, strive to find a sense of security and safety when they see a relationship getting serious. One of the common ways to do this is to claim your rights over your loved one. A man who is truly passionate about you will want you to belong to him completely. What's wrong with that, girls?
13. "This is better than nothing" excuse
Let me remind you: you need a man who wants you, calls you regularly and makes you feel like the sexiest and most desirable woman in the world. He longs to see you more and more often, because each time his feeling grows stronger, growing from sympathy into true love.A relationship in which you meet with a man once every two weeks or once a month, without feeling either love or sympathy on his part, can last a day, or a week, or a month. But can they last a lifetime?
14. One hundred percent of the men surveyed said that fear of serious relationships never deterred them from starting a new romance. One young man even remarked: "The fear of serious relationships is one of the myths of the big city." And another guy said, "This is what we say to girls that we don't really like very much."
Men talk about their feelings, even if you refuse to listen or do not believe their confessions. “I'm not ready for a serious relationship” means “I'm not ready for a serious relationship with you” or “I'm not sure that you are the woman I want.” (I am sorry.)
"Better than nothing" shouldn't suit you.
If you do not understand what is happening in your relationship, then there is nothing wrong with slowing down and asking him a couple of questions.
Does it smell like uncertainty? Don't expect good things.
There is one guy in the world who wants to tell everyone that he is your boyfriend. Stop fooling around, go find him.
4. He doesn't like you that much if he doesn't want to have sex with you.
If a man likes a woman, he always wants to touch her.
Dear ladies, you have already met and will meet a great many men. I hate to tell you about this, but some of these men will simply decide that you are not their type. And none of those men who don't like you will ever tell you about it. And he will say that he is afraid, worried, languishing with fatigue, experiencing pain from a broken leg, suffering from a cold, afraid (again). But the truth, simple, cruel and bitter, is clear as daylight: you do not attract him, and he does not want to hurt you.
15. Justification like "He is afraid that he will be hurt again"
Is he afraid? Yes, he is afraid of offending you. This is why he did not clarify the situation with your relationship in any way. Perhaps he is even trying to make himself feel at least something for you, talking about his love and that he does not want to lose you, but he could just as well sign in your diary. He loves you as a friend. If he loved you as a woman, he would not be able to control himself and would have a whirlwind romance with you, despite all the fears and unpleasant memories.
16. Justification like "I'm driving him so crazy that he doesn't show any interest."
Of course, many people have suffered in the past, and now they are afraid of serious relationships. But you know what? If a man really likes you, nothing will stop him from reaching you, even the fear of a serious relationship. If he has really big problems about this, he can go for goofy treatment, but he will never keep you in the dark.
17. "But this is so great" excuse
It used to be that a woman refuses to have sex when she wants to gain power over a man. It seems that the representatives of the stronger sex have also learned to use it. If a guy, lying on the couch with you, happily devours cookies and watches a movie (and at the same time is not gay), then you simply do not attract him.
18. Justification like "He finds a bunch of explanations for everything"
You can take his excuses if you like, but first ask yourself a couple of questions. Are you satisfied with this relationship? The most important thing here is whether you want to feel that way, perhaps for the rest of your life? Sex is also one of the greatest pleasures a person can experience. Therefore, it is at least strange when the person with whom you are dating prevents you from getting this pleasure.
People are constantly talking about who they really are. If a man tells you that monogamy is not for him, then there is no reason not to believe him.
Communication is great. But if communication is combined with sex, it's even better.Call a spade a spade, or rather, call a friend a friend. And find yourself a friend who can't resist touching you.
If you have low self-esteem, then you will have to spend more time increasing it than looking for a new boyfriend. Therefore, prioritize according to your needs.
If you are seduced by the thought of a thousand and one nights spent in the arms (and only) of some man, then get yourself a puppy.
Hot little thing, somewhere there is a man who really wants to make love to you.
5. He doesn't like you that much if he sleeps with another woman.
There is no truly compelling excuse for cheating.
Whatever problems darken your relationship, they don't give him the right to make love to another woman. Don't ask what you are to blame. Don't take the blame on yourself. And if he tells you that it happened by accident, then remember: cheating is never accidental. This is not an accident like "I stumbled, and I was sucked in by a swamp named" Treason ". He planned and brought it to life, fully aware that it could end your relationship. Remember: if he sleeps with another woman without your permission and approval, then he behaves not just like a man who is not so much attracted to you, but like a man who is not interested in you at all.
20. Justification like "He has no excuse, and he knows about it"
Cheating is bad. And the inability to explain why you cheated on a person is even worse. If one red flag isn't enough for you, how about two? Don't date men who don't know why they did this or that thing.
21. "But I got fat" excuse
I'm pretty sure you need to lose 90 kg in the form of your worthless boyfriend, and not the twenty kilos that he talks about. He cheated on you and called you fat. How much humiliation can a person endure? If something in your relationship does not suit him, then he should talk about it with you, instead of looking for consolation in the vagina of a stranger. Also, think about how he will react if you get pregnant, get old, or get a few wrinkles? Or if you dye your hair a color he doesn't like? Get rid of this loser immediately, or I myself will come to your house and throw him out of there.
22. "He needs more sex than me" excuse
There is no excuse that he is cheating on you. Point. There are many ways to solve this rather common problem, which arises from the difference in sexual appetites. As a rule, people start by talking frankly about this topic, and everyone agrees to do everything in their power to make their partner happy. In this case, it is not at all necessary to jump into bed with someone else!
23. "But at least he knew her" excuse
I explain in other words: it doesn't matter if he loves you or not. He made it clear to you what his relationship to your romance is. He went on about his feelings and arranged everything in such a way as to be alone with another woman, kiss her, take off her clothes and do everything else that usually happens when two adults have sex. Can you continue to love him after this?
24. One hundred percent of the men surveyed reported that they had never made love to a woman by pure chance. (But many of them wanted to know how such an accident occurs and what needs to be done to take advantage of it.)
There is no excuse for treason. Let me repeat: there is no excuse for cheating. Now tell it yourself: there is no excuse for cheating.
The only thing that you are responsible for in the moral fall of another person is your own feelings.
Treason is treason. At the same time, it does not matter with whom he cheated on you and how many times it happened.
It becomes easier to change each time.It is difficult only the first time, when you feel remorse and guilt for not justifying the trust of another person.
Cheaters are never happy. (Because they are all scoundrels.)
The unfaithful man is first of all cheating on himself, since he cannot build a normal relationship with you.
6. He doesn't like you that much if he only wants to see you when he is drunk.
If he likes you, he will be eager to see you when his brain is not clouded by alcohol fumes. If your clown wears a red nose every time it comes to intimacy, then this suggests that there are serious problems in your relationship.
25. "But I like it when he's drunk" excuse
If, sitting in a bar, he is drunk and says something like: "Baby, you are so beautiful!" and at the same time hugs you a little tighter than it should be, then it's high time to learn something: you can't believe everything that a man says when he is drunk. And listen to the ex-bad guy: “bad guys” are called bad because they have a lot of trouble, have no self-esteem, and besides, they absolutely do not believe in sincere love relationships, but very often they dress cool and ride cool wheelbarrows. Do you really need this one?
26. Excuse like "At least he drinks not the strongest drinks"
Don't be fooled. A guy who doesn't fall off his feet or pee in his pants from drinking shouldn't get away with quietly shutting off his brains in a different, easier way every time you're together. It's still intoxication, it's still a desire to avoid responsibility, and it's still not too good for you.
His words mean nothing if he uttered them while intoxicated. “I love you,” or the like, spoken under the influence of any drink stronger than grape juice has no effect in court or in real life.
Drinking alcohol and drugs is not the path to the innermost feelings of a person. Otherwise, people would not have smashed empty beer bottles on their heads and tried to touch the flames of fire to find out if they felt something or not.
If he wants to see you, communicate with you, have sex with you only when he is tipsy, this is not love, this is sport.
Bad guys are called bad guys for a reason.
You deserve the kind of man who doesn't need to pump up to spend time with you.
7. He doesn't like you that much if he doesn't want to marry you.
Love heals commitment mania
Every one of your ex-men who has told you they don't want to get married, or don't believe in marriage, or have doubts about marriage, will certainly tie themselves up in sacred ties someday. Not with you. Because he is not talking about not wanting to get married at all. He talks about not wanting to marry you.
28. Justification like "It's very complicated now."
If you focus on the state of your finances when choosing the time for your wedding, this auspicious period will never come. If your boyfriend uses lack of money as an excuse not to marry you, then your relationship is in danger, not his bank account.
29. Excuse like "But he's all like himself"
If you have to sit and think about how to start a conversation about marriage with a person with whom you have had a close relationship for quite some time, then this is an alarming signal. Immediately call him in for a frank conversation and sort things out. Then, as soon as you are ready, go in search of a person whose entire thoughts will be occupied with how you feel.
30. A dilemma like "Is this really an excuse not to get married?"
Marriage is a tradition that we inherited from previous generations, which is why marriage has so many opponents.Let it be so: if a man is categorically against marriage, and you are in favor with both hands, then please make sure that behind his unwillingness to marry lies only a dislike for the very institution of marriage, and not any other feelings or their absence.
31. "I'm just not ready yet" excuse
I hate to tell you about this, but he does not want to rush for just one reason: he is still not sure that you are the one.
32. "He has seen enough other failed marriages" excuse
For a worthy man, meeting a woman with whom he wants to share his life always becomes a real event. And, probably, if he realizes that this is exactly the woman, he will not immediately inform her that the mere thought of registering their relationship disgusts him.
33. One hundred percent of the men surveyed admitted that they would no doubt offer a hand and a heart to a woman if they were completely sure that it was she who was the love of their life. One representative of the stronger sex said: "What kind of an idiot you have to be not to marry the woman you love?"
“Doesn't want to marry” and “Doesn't want to marry me” are two different things. Make sure that you have correctly identified which category your chosen one belongs to.
If you have opposing views of marriage, there are likely to be other issues that will lead to disagreements. It's time to make a problem list.
If nothing changes in your relationship, then what are you waiting for?
Somewhere on earth there is a man who wants to marry you.
8. He doesn't like you that much if he dumped you.
“I don’t want to be with you” still means exactly that
34. "He needs me" excuse
Do not be satisfied that he is bored without you. He should be bored. You are so unique. And yet he was and remains the person who left you. Remember, there is only one reason he may be bored remembering you: he thinks he doesn't want to spend the day with you.
35. Justification like "After such a decision is much easier"
If he meets you, calls you out, dumps you and continues to sleep with you, which, in fact, relieves him of any responsibility for your feelings for him. There is one thing a young man will never do if he cannot imagine his life without you: he will never leave you. The only way for you to know if you love yourself is to get rid of it as quickly as possible.
36. Excuse like "But everyone does it"
Stop holding on to his cock, get dressed and quickly head home to your best friend. And don't look for an excuse to stay with him. And do not think that all this crazy passion will inevitably lead to the fact that you will be together again. Oh yeah, having sex after breaking up is not bad at all, because it's great to sleep with someone you know. It's also great to sleep with someone you have strong feelings for. This combination is what makes sex after a breakup so bright. But now you know that because of this, real confusion arises in your head and you start to feel terrible. Face it: you are a woman, and women do not know how to separate love and sex. And don't make such mistakes again. Got it? He doesn't like you that much. He likes a very bad idea much more, which is disguised as a very good idea, namely sex after a breakup. Like this.
37. Excuse like "But then he wants to come back"
Unfortunately, after you break up, your boyfriend starts looking for something better. And when he does not succeed, he is seized by loneliness and he returns "home". He doesn't seem to like you very much. He just really doesn't like being alone.
38. Excuse like "I refuse to accept the fact that he left me"
I'm sorry he left you.Trying to get him back over and over again, you lead your ex-boyfriend to the thought, "What did I even find in this nutty bitch?" Remember one simple tip, ladies: always be on top. Never go crazy. Well, well, in fact, this is not even one, but two whole tips. But trust me, you will never regret listening to them. At the very least, it will save you from the unpleasant memories of how you cut his clothes to pieces or threw out all the photos with him.
You can't prevent a breakup by talking. Discussions won't help here. The severance of relations is a final decision and cannot be appealed.
Having sex after a breakup doesn't mean you're back together.
Stop communicating with him. Let him miss you.
You don't need to remind him how great you are.
He himself can take care of his cat.
"Gorgeous woman" will never torment his answering machine.
Somewhere a young man is waiting for you, who will be just happy that you have not gotten back to your terribly nasty ex-boyfriend.
9. He doesn't like you that much if he just took it and disappeared.
Sometimes I have to put a point myself
Well, everything is very clear here. He made you understand that you are so not his type that he did not even bother to leave you at least some news about himself. The only thing you have to take away from this love story is the fact that he decided to leave you. And he didn't have the courage to tell you about it, looking into your eyes. Case is closed.
40. "Maybe he died" excuse
There is nothing worse than not getting an answer from your loved one. But the trouble is that the lack of an answer is the answer for you. He may not have written a farewell letter, but his silence speaks more clearly: "I don't like you." The only reason you should write to him again is if you want to get an explicit rejection, now in verbal form. Have you forgotten? You are too busy with your fans and you don't have time for such nonsense.
41. Excuse like "So, it turns out, I can't even quarrel with him for the last time?"
At first, it may seem that it will make you feel better if you call him and make a scandal. You may feel like you've let it dry out of the water. But trust me, nothing you want to tell him will be a revelation to him. And you already have something to spend your time on.
42. "But I just want an answer" excuse
Do you deserve to find out what really happened? Undoubtedly. I can tell you what happened: you met a terrible person. The easiest way to correct this mistake is to draw certain conclusions for yourself, to live on and continue to be more choosy in choosing a partner. Do it all quickly, without wasting a minute of your precious time.
43. One hundred percent of the male surveyed who “disappeared” from the woman's field of vision said they were fully aware that they had done something terrible and no phone calls or late conversations would make them change their minds.
He may actually be in the hospital suffering from amnesia, but chances are he's just not all that infatuated with you.
The lack of an answer is his answer to you.
Don't give him the opportunity to reject you again.
Let his mother give him scandals. And you are too busy for that.
There is no mystery here: he just left your life, and he was not worthy of you.
10. He doesn't like you so much if he is married (this also includes all the other, most incredible reasons why he cannot be with you)
If you cannot love each other freely and openly, then this is not true love. No matter how strong and sincere your feelings for another person may be, if he cannot answer them honestly and fully, that is, with mutual love, these feelings do not mean anything.
44. Excuse like "But his wife is such a bitch!"
No matter how unhappy his marriage was and no matter how terrible his wife treated him, things were definitely not so bad, otherwise he would have left her long ago. A sincere love relationship doesn't deserve to be hidden. Find yourself a man who won't hide his feelings.
45. "But he's such a good person" excuse
Please do not try to ignore this fact. He is married to another woman. I know you are not like everyone else, and in your case everything is different, but the fact remains: he is married. If in your entire life you are ready to stop at a red light only once, then this is just such a case. It's just that the stakes are too high for everyone who plays this game.
46. "I just have to wait" excuse
If, at a certain stage in the development of relations, it comes to “waiting for him,” this is an alarming signal. It is not a stock in which you are going to invest money. He is a man whose heart must be open enough to be ready to meet you and fall madly in love with you. If someone really likes you, they will quickly solve all their problems and put a lot of effort into not losing you.
He is married.
If it does not belong to you wholly and completely, then it belongs to her.
There are a lot of cool and gentle single men in the world. Try to meet one of them.
If a man yells and vomits curses at his ex-wife or mourns a previous girlfriend, go to a movie with someone else.
He is married.
No need to join the ranks of those very women.
You are not so easy to forget. Let him find you when he is ready for a new relationship.
11. He doesn't like you that much if he acts like a selfish selfish person, a braggart, or just like a big jerk
If he really loves you, he will do his best to make you happy.
48. "But he really wants to get better" excuse
Loving people try to treat each other well and even enjoy showing their loved ones tenderness and care. If your partner is very bad at it, then you end up reaping the same benefits as in the situation called "He doesn't like you that much."
49. Excuse like "But he was just brought up like that"
It doesn't have to be that he's crazy about your CD collection. He doesn't have to like all of your shoes. But any full-fledged and prudent man is simply obliged to make an effort on himself and love your friends and your family, especially if they are all such wonderful people.
50. Justification like "But he will change"
Hot temper is not a temporary problem. People who yell at others simply do not know how to control themselves and need psychiatric help. People who yell at others think they have a right to do so. Hey pretty girl, do you really want to start a family like this?
51. Justification like "After all, it is only important what happens between us in private"
Why be with a person who needs to humiliate you in order to feel their own superiority? Especially in front of friends! Why should you pay attention to the fact that he treats you better when you are alone? After all, he is just waiting for how to bring you into people in order to humiliate you. Throw it! Go to college and write a diploma on the topic: "How to find a man who is not ashamed to show your friends."
52. "But he's just trying to help" excuse
It is not only such behavior when a man beats a woman is called offensive. It is also possible and should be considered offensive behavior when a man shouts at a woman, publicly humiliates her or reminds her that she is too fat, thereby making her feel unattractive. It is very difficult to believe that you deserve true love when someone is struggling to convince you that you are not worthy of anything at all in this life. But, as I see, all the admonitions to part with him still do not work for you.So to begin with, just realize that you are too good for this kind of relationship. You are too good for this kind of relationship.
53. Justification like "He just hasn't found himself yet."
People are constantly faced with difficult situations. But, as they say, if there were a hunt, the work would go well. And a strong, independent man will never ask you for five hundred bucks to pay a bar bill. Therefore, your thoughts should be occupied only with how to find such a man who would never agree to parasitize on you and your family.
54. Excuse like "Maybe this is one of his little oddities!"
You will surely meet men who do not like hugging, kissing or having sex. You will spend a lot of time trying to figure out how to deal with it and if you are the cause of this behavior. Or you may simply come to the conclusion that these people do not like doing what you think is an integral part of a fulfilling life, and go in search of someone who shares your views.
The joke sounds, for example, like this: "Hey, Bjork called, she wants to take back her dress." And the insult - like this: "God, well, you are corroded!" But the most important thing is to understand what you need. All of you definitely deserve better treatment!
55. One hundred percent of the men surveyed said they never tried to humiliate or upset a woman they really liked. And this is the most important thing.
You shouldn't complicate an already difficult life by sharing it with a person who gives you a lot of trouble.
You are worthy of such a man who will behave with you as befits in any situation. (Remember to treat him well, too.)
There is no reason to yell at another person unless they are in mortal danger.
Assholes belong in the circus, not in your apartment.
You already have one ass, why do you need another?
By getting rid of useless people, you will have a lot of free time that you can spend on what gives you pleasure.
Believe in yourself. How could it be otherwise?
13. So what should you do?
56. Here you ask: "What if there is no next novel at all?" And we will answer: “Send these terrible thoughts on a long voyage on a ship that will certainly sink, because it is destined to crash on the reefs of the Isle of Sorrow. And we do not want you to be on this ship."
Your new requirements:
I will not date a person who does not ask me out on his own.
I will not meet with a person who makes me wait for hours for his call.
I will not date a person who is not sure if he wants to date me.
I will not date someone who makes me feel sexually unattractive.
I will not date someone who abuses alcohol or drugs, so it makes me uncomfortable.
I will not date a person who is afraid to make plans for the future with me.
Under no circumstances will I waste time with a person who has already rejected me once.
I will not date a married man.
I will not date a man if he is not really a kind, sincere and gentle person.
Now it's your turn. Only you know what other requirements you want to present to your future chosen one. Write them all down. And don't forget about them.
This should mean this: I would never intentionally do anything to hurt you. In some cases, it means: I just don't like you that much.
This should mean the following: today was my inauguration as President of the United States. In some cases, it means: I just don't like you that much.
This should mean the following: A guy to stay away from. In some cases, this means: A guy to stay away from.
I'm not ready
This should mean the following: I can't find my pants. In some cases, it means: I just don't like you that much.
This should mean the following: I accidentally dropped my cell phone off a cliff into the ocean. In some cases, it means: I just don't like you that much.
I don't like your family
This should mean the following: I do not want to meet with your mother. In some cases, it means: I just don't like you that much.
I'm afraid of intimacy
This should mean the following: I am really very afraid of intimacy. In some cases, it means: I just don't like you that much.
And you will be happy!
The post is based on the book by Greg Berendt, Liz Tuchillo “He just doesn't like you. The whole truth about men. " We recommend that you read the entire book in its entirety.