Tatiana was cheated on by her husband for many years. She finally decided to divorce, but then almost the former crawled to her knees and began to beg to keep the marriage. What to do?
“Cheated for many years with one girl, in SMS to her - I love, I miss, I think only of you, and I can imagine all the romance when we meet. To me all the last years - cold, everyday life, rudeness, but there were periods when everything seemed to be fine. Now he is lying at his feet, crying in the literal sense of the word, I love, my family is dear. It was all frivolous, friendly relations. She claims that nothing happened to her (in the sense of intimacy, of course, it is not). It’s clear that I’m very bad, it hurts so much! He says that he punished himself, was a fool and so on. I was already ready for a divorce, I did not expect such a reaction from him. I can't, I constantly imagine everything, such an insult. I would forgive if it were a quick affair, but here - so serious. He says, if it were so serious, why would I beg, I would go to her, if I loved her. I don’t understand at all how I should be now …”Tanya
Many women were quite stern. They immediately advised Tatiana not to forgive her husband and try to find happiness herself: “Does he need a family or you? It seems that for him you are just a convenience. And there - the woman with whom he was in love. He hasn't loved you for a long time. Another woman will appear - will love her. " Anonymous “I was scared for myself, but then everything will be the same, not with her, but with the other. I apologized many times and started new novels each time. " Anonymous “File for divorce! Urgently! And be happy without him! " “I’m lying at my feet, because I really don’t want to change the well-established way of life, to share what I have acquired, to talk to my parents, to look stupid in the eyes of friends. It is much better to run on the sly from one woman to another, each loves and licks. Something go and promise something to also wait and hope. And everything was so wonderful - a wife with pies at home, on the side - a mistress in stockings. It's so corny … chase him. " Anonymous “The short answer to the author's question is NO. Don't forgive … it's impossible to forgive that. People do not change … this is an axiom”Anonymous
However, there were also those who could not give the author an exact answer. They advised to listen to your heart and do as it tells: “Well, who knows you better than you? What's best for you? If you have the strength to forgive - goodbye, no - appreciate yourself and leave.. "_assa_ V. I. P. “Of course you won't envy you … My opinion is - listen to your heart. If you still have feelings for him, then you will be able to survive this situation over time. If he annoys you, then do not torture yourself or him. Good luck to you!" Funny_1 _ "What difference does it make what he says. Can you forgive? Not for show, but really letting go and not remembering? If not, then you shouldn't try. For this constant thought will seize you. You will remember him, compare, distrust him, etc. It makes sense to forgive only sincerely, but this is very, very difficult. " Striped mattress * Let's hope that Tatiana can make the right decision and be happy.