A difficult period began in Olga's life - she learned about her husband's betrayal, having a 4-month-old baby in her arms. The woman is sure - revenge on her mistress is the best medicine. But how can she destroy her rival's marriage?
“I ask the collective common sense. I myself think very badly. Since Friday, I hardly sleep, I can not eat, I am breastfeeding a 4 month old baby. Thrash horror happened in my life! After 3 years of marriage, 6 years together and the birth of a son to her husband, he betrayed us. Very painful and dirty! The connection lasts for several months. She also has a husband and children. There are words of love, and sex in our house, where my soul is put into every centimeter, where our photos, photos of our children … Sex in our car … I am destroyed, trampled. My world has collapsed, I’m still waiting to wake up and tell my husband this nightmare, but I don’t wake up in any way … I don’t even believe that this is reality and is happening in my family! My husband is the most vile traitor, but this is not about him! He punished himself! Yes, he repents and lies at his feet, cries, does not go to work. But nevertheless it does not cease to cover it. I want her to experience all the same and experience what is happening to me now. I believe that only grim women, knowing everything, can so get into a family with their dirty feet. I want to write to her husband. With slippers I ask by. Those who have not been in my shoes will not understand. I need to get out of my head, I need not to go crazy! The question is what and how, so that he believes me and her marriage collapses? Sometimes I think if I would have believed if they had written to me - not a fact! He was an exemplary family man. " Olga
Evarushnitsy, of course, sympathize with the author, but they think that it is not the mistress who should be punished, but the husband, because he brought another woman into the house: “Why not take revenge on my husband? He, unlike that woman, has obligations towards you. Are you going to run after all his women now with revenge? " Striped mattress D ** “Actually, she did not swear to you in love and to be your husband, so she does not owe YOU anything. But your HUSBAND swore. Why are you going to throw everything at her, and not at him ?! Of course, it's up to you, but think for yourself. If anything, I was in such a situation, but with my brains I understood that my husband owed me, not a fairy. " Anonymous “Author, you are wrong. No matter how unprincipled and lowly Liu was, her husband brought her to your house. Let's say your husband would bring someone, and they, together (!!) with this person, drank in your house. Who is to blame in the first place? The one who brought, and even participated. In your own home, mind you. Yes, it is not good for a married woman to sleep with a married one. But still the responsibility in this case lies with your husband. " Anonymous “Deal with your husband. That woman doesn't owe you anything. If I were her husband and got some dirty anonymous letter, it’s not a fact that I would have told her about it at all. I would take a note, but if everything is fine in the family, then I would not raise a wave because of hysterics with manias, of which there are plenty. " Anonymous “Strange, cheated on, betrayed by her husband - and they are going to take revenge on his mistress. Where is the logic? You can just as well take revenge on a stranger on the street. " Anonymous
Others, on the contrary, believe that the author needs to throw out negative emotions and take revenge: “Correctly the Author! I am for you! Take revenge, write to the mistress's husband. You still will not calm down and every day you will think about it, break down (if you do not take revenge). Better to end this now. " Anonymous “I got the news two months ago too. Without hesitation, I would have informed my husband. There is not only a husband, but also four children! But, alas, I only know the full name, approximate age, 4 mobile numbers and place of work. It is not in the networks. Unfortunately, I don't have any cops I know. I would inform my husband without hesitation. But I will still work on it. Author, good luck to you. I would advise you to meet with your husband, take with you all the evidence you have. The creatures need to be punished! " wife “Both husband and mistress acted as meanly as possible! To strike a woman in her most vulnerable period of life, when she was on maternity leave with a baby.Author, you have carte blanche, do what you want. Even if you paste over her photo with the appropriate signature on the whole street, I would not blame you. " Anonymous “I support you. Write. It is possible with emotions, the main thing is to convey the facts. " milli-vanilla KF ** “Take revenge and don't even think about it. Definitely on your side. Don't listen to these women who recommend forgetting and forgiving. The main thing is to take revenge with honor and dignity in order to also destroy her marriage. As an option - hang her photo with your husband at the entrance and, in short, the story of this love. To write to her husband through social networks and so on, I would use everything, I just wouldn't leave it. Drive the peasant out, he will always behave like that. Time will heal everything. " Dotsenko SD ** “Yes, the author. Do it. May it be hard for her too. And do not care about their alleged humiliation. Your husband has already humiliated you with his betrayal. " Anonymous
There are those who believe that anger and revenge will not do anything good. They advise Olga to let go of the situation, take care of herself and the child, and make decisions with a cool head: “Cool it down. Revenge is a dish served cold. You need to calm down and decide how to live on. You have a baby, such emotions are extremely harmful to him. If after a while, you realize that it will be easier for you from a letter to her husband - do it. Now she may well be ready for your revenge. And prepare for it. " Svetlan KF “Do you want to get bigger in the city? Better take care of the child, this is your salvation, the mistress in any case will stay with her, since she has already decided on such a step, think less about others, good or bad for them, think about yourself, the child. " Anonymous “I would advise you to try not to harass yourself: you are a nursing mother, you should not worry !!! About the husband's bond: maybe until your hormones settled down, something was wrong in your family? And the husband was weak. No one here will give adequate advice and correct your brains: this is your family and only you know what to do. " kateanne F We hope that the support and advice the author received on the forum helped her calm down and make the right decision.