Often, after watching more than a dozen TV shows, reading books about love, girls conclude that there is an ideal relationship, where there are no quarrels and resentments. Namely, these two factors are the reasons for the separation. However, as it turns out, a divorce or breakup is not the end of the family. There are couples who break up and converge again, thereby refuting the phrase: you cannot enter the same river twice. "Vecherka" made up the top domestic stars who were able to sacrifice their principles and renew their relationship.
For example, the actress Karina Razumovskaya. She is known as the protagonist of the TV series Major. I met my husband at the age of 15. They had a wonderful family life, but at some point there was a discord. Karina Razumovskaya spent a lot of time outside the home, which was the reason for scandals. After a couple of quarrels, Karina broke up with her husband Yegor Burdin. Realizing that they could not live without each other, the couple got back together.
You cannot pass by the famous pair of Bari Alibasov with Lydia Fedoseeva-Shukshina. Their love began over 20 years ago. Their relationship caused bewilderment among many - the eccentric leader of the Na-Na group and the People's Artist of the RSFSR seemed so different. As you know, this couple parted quite often. Each time, the reason was the same - Bari was always obsessed with work. But despite such a heavy workload, he admitted that he is anxious about Lydia and plans to live with her all his life.
According to the psychologist, an important factor is that the decision to renew the relationship should be as balanced as possible.
- Either you agree to put up with the fact that both of you did not like each other, and your connection is much stronger than personal ambitions. Either together or with the help of a specialist, find the cause of the gap and work out a problematic unsolvable issue and create a new family reality with new boundaries and rules, - Dmitry Shestakov specified.
He added that if partners fail to take into account past mistakes, then another break is guaranteed.