I am married, I am not yet thirty. I work as a gynecologist in a city hospital. Patients come to see me with pleasure, and I also love my job. But his personal life is not going well. And this despite the fact that I adore my husband … until he touches me. As soon as it starts to pester, I immediately imagine myself in a gynecological chair. And the excitement was gone! I used to think: my husband is doing something wrong, and then I realized that it’s not about him. I also had other men (sinful!) - but with them everything is the same: at the most inopportune moment I think about the structure of female organs. Maybe it turns someone on, but not me! After all, I see female genitals at work every day. To be honest, sex has become a problem for me … Marina K., Samara According to the psychologist, Marina probably has a specific substitution of sexual reactions caused by her professional activities. After all, the doctor's manner of action during a gynecological examination is strikingly similar to the aggressive male demeanor - the doctor penetrates the holy of holies of the woman. True, with the help of special tools. Marina, inevitably playing a male role in the gynecological office, transfers the same demeanor to bed, cannot switch, relax, become a woman. Hence the problem with intimacy. Of course, not all women gynecologists face similar problems. This only happens to those who were initially guided by a masculine style of behavior. The same aggressive demeanor in bed, as in the gynecological office with patients, will help Marina get rid of the complex. She literally needs to take the initiative. This will save Marina from thinking that it is not she, but the "instrument" is being introduced into her. Psychologically, she will become more comfortable from this, gradually she will learn to relax and have fun.
FASHION? Oh, YES! Once a young woman-gynecologist Elsa Kramer came to see the great psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud and complained that she was disgusted with sex. “I don’t enjoy being in a relationship with a man,” the lady said. “This is too much like a gynecological examination. Freud talked a little with the patient and advised her … to quit her job. He described her complex as "fear of penetration." It is connected with a woman's subconscious unwillingness to be the object of gynecological research. A year later, Elsa Kramer reappeared in Freud's waiting room. She came to thank her savior. Elsa not only improved her personal life, leaving her job on the advice of Freud, but also found a much more exciting occupation - she became the owner of a fashion magazine.
GENTLE AND CAREFUL According to surveys, 55% of women who are married to a medical husband say they are very good at oral sex. However, it is doctors - husbands and lovers who lose in the foreplay, which they never last as long as needed. 36% of partners say that it is among representatives of the medical profession that sex ends too quickly, and 14% are sure that doctors are the main candidates for taking Viagra. Defending Aesculapians, psychologists explain: doctors are very careful about the safety of sex and about preventing unwanted pregnancies. In bed, they are gentle, helpful, very romantic, never hurt, do not accept violence in sex.
