Sometimes it's best to tell your partner honestly about them. Because "I have a headache" is not annoying only the first hundred times.
So, what is worth talking about honestly, or at least what is worth being honestly aware of.
Do you have relationship problems?
It is perfectly normal that your desire to have sex with your man can diminish and even disappear if you are unhappy with something that is happening between you. The problem is, if you don't talk about it, your frustration will only increase. Here's the connection: you avoid sex and keep silent about the reasons. The reasons do not disappear anywhere, but he sincerely does not understand what the matter is and begins to get angry with you. Now, in his eyes, you are to blame. Apologize? His? For what? You've been fooling him for a month now, he's not made of iron!
And all that was worth honestly saying: "Darling, you got sick of throwing socks all over the house and not washing for three days."
Are you tired and just want to fall and sleep?
For good sex, you need to be able to relax. What relaxation can be when you dream of sleeping an hour longer. Not four hours a night, but at least five? And if you don't get rest, there can be no question of any sex. And here is the same vicious circle - not recognizing an honest reason, your fatigue, you will add to it his resentment against you. And with frayed nerves, you will definitely not be able to rest or relax. That is, there will be no sex for anyone in this house.
Do you drink a lot and have a big dinner?
All of this, both together and separately, reduces your attraction. What to do with this is up to you. But try to see if it's food and drink. Gradually discarding one reason after another, sooner or later you will get to the bottom of the truth.
Do you think your sex has become boring?
Monotony kills attraction. Change the scene for one night. Take a short weekend trip. Change your bedding. You will laugh, but even such elementary changes affect our consciousness. Our brains are easy enough to fool. Well, if you like the direction of what to do with routine sex, we have suggested to you.
Are you menopause?
According to recent studies, menopause itself does not affect your desire for sex. There are no hormonal changes that would discourage you. But the accompanying features, like tearfulness, fever, hot flashes and sometimes pain, can occupy your thoughts with fears that something is wrong with you. Your therapist can advise you on how to cope with your menopausal symptoms if they bother you a lot. But, again, there is no reason to believe that your sex ended there.
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