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We have been in a relationship with my man for three years, and all this time we had sex in silence, interrupted only by groans. Well, maybe a couple of times they forgot to turn off the TV and a movie was playing in the background, but this is the maximum.
In general, everything was fine with me. In general, I am convinced that when making love, you need to focus exclusively on your feelings and feelings of a partner, without being distracted by extraneous stimuli. But not so long ago, everything changed - I came across an article about playlists for sex.
It turns out that a lot of people compose a selection of tracks that turn them on to heighten their orgasms. I was confused by the lack of romance in this. How is it going? You and your partner start kissing, and then you ask him to stop for a minute to turn on the music? So in fact all the mood will disappear, it seemed to me. But I love experimenting, so I decided to give it a try.
I chose the songs to my taste and only in a foreign language, so as not to be particularly distracted by the meaning of the compositions along the way. She didn't say anything to her partner, she decided to watch his reaction. One evening she turned on a playlist and offered to dance. The dance quickly turned into prelude, and the prelude into sex. And honestly, I have no idea how it worked, but it was one of the best times in our relationship. My man adjusted to the rhythm of the tracks, I did the same, and I also imagined myself as the heroine of an erotic thriller. It was amazing.
Later, we started playing music all the time, and the quality of sex immediately improved, although it was just right before.