Sooner or later, difficult times come in the family. Family psychologist Evgenia Larionova told how to cope with the inevitable difficulties.
According to the specialist, difficulties begin to arise already in the first year of marriage, when all the weaknesses and habits of the partner become visible. During this period, it is important to learn how to work together and reach agreements on the most important issues: how to manage the family budget, how to spend free time, and so on.
If a child is born in the first year of marriage, then the father must take part in the upbringing, giving the mother the opportunity to rest.
- It is important for a wife not to get depressed, for this to try to communicate more with both the baby and her husband. Ideally - joint walks with the whole family, - says the psychologist.
The following difficulties in family life usually arise in 3-4 years of marriage. When partners are already accustomed to each other, irritation may arise over trifles, for example, due to unwashed dishes.
In this case, the psychologist advises to talk to each other more often, make compliments and learn to thank for simple things - cooked breakfast, help around the house, thrown away garbage.
- Leisure activities, walks and travel together are also useful. If you feel that problems are brewing, start a conversation - not with accusations, but calmly, allowing yourself and your partner to share emotions and discuss what actions everyone can take in this situation.
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